Rose Tremain, Absolutely & Forever, Vintage, 2024; 20231
The title is the dreamy phrase used by 15-year-old Marianne to describe her feelings for the young man she believes to be the love of her life – Simon. That ampersand is an indication of her callow romanticism. Sadly for her, all does not go smoothly: Simon faces a major setback, and takes off to Paris, leaving Marianne bereft.
Her life loses purpose and impetus. She does badly at school, drudges through secretarial college, and allows herself to get into a relationship with a kind man, but he’s someone she doesn’t really love.
She has to cope with personal disasters and family crises that eventually take her back to care for her ailing, elderly father. The course of that infatuation with Simon also takes an unexpected turn.
All is narrated from Marianne’s point of view in a rather gushing style that reflects her complex emotional life, in which reality is at odds with the starry-eyed romanticism she tends to favour. A close friend points out bluntly that she’s put her life on hold for Simon – she’s staying in what she refers to herself as the ‘love asylum’, signifying the irrationality of her lovelorn excesses, and the way they’ve caused her to reject normal social life. Is she foolishly deluded, or admirably true to her feelings? The author leaves us to decide.
It’s all done with Rose Tremain’s customary competence. My brief summary here probably makes Absolutely & Forever sound rather fluffy and slight, but one of Tremain’s strong points as a novelist is her ability to create rounded characters who face trials and setbacks that cause them to reassess their lives and choices.
Links to my previous posts on Rose Tremain’s fiction:
Islands of Mercy (2020) – historical novel set in 19C Bath
The American Lover (2014) – short stories in which thwarted love is a recurring theme, as in Absolutely & Forever
The Gustav Sonata (2016) – set in wartime Switzerland, this is my favourite Tremain novel so far; she’s at her best, it seems to me, when writing historical fiction. Although Absolutely & Forever is set in the early 60s, I wouldn’t really put it in that category. And it’s less substantial and ambitious than these other works of hers.


